Sexlife after a vasectomy

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Last post: 15/02/2024 at 8:00 pm

SOPHIE G(481)
Sophie G(481)
08/01/2024 at 2:10 pm

Hey everyone


This is my 1st time posting.


My husband got a vasectomy in July 2023, we have 4 children (youngest is 13 months) but for the past 3 months the quality of our sex life as dramatically change. I dont have an orgasam anymore as he doesn't last long. Literally sex is lasting not even 2 minutes before he's ejaculated. We have sex 3 or 4 times a week (we both have a high sex drive) but now I'm feeling disappointed it's not lasting long enough to enjoy it. I've even had to finish myself off the other night with a vibrator after he went to bed just so I could climax.


My husband has noticed he isn't lasting long but isn't bothered.


My question is, could this be because he's had a vasectomy? Has anymore else experienced this 🤔🤷‍♀️

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DAVID H(431)
David H(431)
11/01/2024 at 8:38 am

Hmmm.


Not sure I am the best person to advise on this!


See my thread.

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REID Y
Reid Y
15/02/2024 at 8:00 pm

Hi Sophie,

my name is Reid. Just to say I have some ladies in a similar situation, you seem understanding wife but I sense your husband seems to feel as long he and you have sex you are happy🤔. You are missing the compliments from him and the effort to make you feel wanted and that he considers that your feelings and desires are met. Maybe you will tell me I’m wrong but I talking from experience

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